I help highly sensitive womxn end their fight with food & their body by guiding them back home to their body & building emotional intimacy.

Personal/Spiritual Development

Why I No Longer Believe That We Have To Love Ourselves First

Why I No Longer Believe That We Have To Love Ourselves First

Three and a half years ago I wrote an article for an online publication about why we need self-love before we can love others or receive their love. I truly used to believe this to be true, but as I’ve continued down my own healing […]

And What If This Isn’t Here To Stay

And What If This Isn’t Here To Stay

And what if this isn’t here to stay. But to guide me through. That old part of me is afraid. Afraid that it will pull me down with it’s arctic grip on my wrists. Binding me. I feel that grip tighten as my chest heaves. […]

This Is For The Quiet Ones

This Is For The Quiet Ones

This is for the quiet ones The highly sensitive ones. The introverts. The empaths. The shy ones. In a world full of the extremes of black and white. The grey is where your magic alchemizes. In a world full of people shouting for attention, likes […]

Is It A Need For Alone Time Or Are You Socially Isolating?

Is It A Need For Alone Time Or Are You Socially Isolating?

Looking back over my history with an eating disorder, I can see various times when I withdrew and socially isolated. This lack of connection with others contributed to the depression I experienced.  I’ve been mulling over parts that can get confused as they have a similar […]

Beware Of Spiritual Bypassing

Beware Of Spiritual Bypassing

The term Spiritual Bypassing was coined by the Buddhist teacher and psychotherapist, John Weldwood in the early 1980’s. As defined by John, it’s the tendency to use spiritual ideas and practices to sidestep or avoid unresolved emotional issues, psychological wounds and unfinished developmental tasks. Dr. […]

How Inner Child Work Can Help You Stop Binge Eating

How Inner Child Work Can Help You Stop Binge Eating

I struggled with binge eating for a good decade and for so long I thought I just needed more willpower.  I got caught in a cycle of dieting and over exercising to try to control the binge eating behaviour. What I’ve come to understand is […]

People Pleasing Is Not A Faulty Personality Trait

People Pleasing Is Not A Faulty Personality Trait

Sometimes people pleasing is shamed, which actually doesn’t serve in helping change the behaviour. There are deep layers to work through to actually shift the behaviour. People pleasing is not a faulty personality trait. It’s a nervous system response to trauma and it’s intention is […]

What Is Somatic Stress Release?

What Is Somatic Stress Release?

A couple of months ago I took a Somatic Stress Release Certification and have been sharing concepts in my social media posts that I have deepened my understanding with. It’s led to me going down a rabbit hole with learning more about Somatic Experiencing.  What led […]

Numbness

Numbness

The numbness and tension created by the resistance to feel, is worse than actually feeling the painful emotions. Emotions like sadness, anger, shame and fear. That numbness and resistance is often why we turn to coping mechanisms to shift our state. Food gives you a […]

The Power of Inner Child Work

The Power of Inner Child Work

On my journey of healing my relationship with food and my body one of the most profound concepts that was introduced to me, is inner child work. For those who don’t know, we all have an inner child within us. This part of us developed […]